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Simple Secrets for Enjoying the Wedding Planning Process
You’re
engaged - congratulations! You have just experienced one of the most
memorable moments of your life, and now, you get to begin thinking about
the most memorable day of your life. But first, a few tips for taking charge of your special day so that it doesn’t take over you in a negative way.
1. Soak in the experience of what just happened.
It’s easy to jump right from the engagement ring being placed on your
finger, to thinking about how, when, where, and how much - whew! Bask
in the simple beauty of the fact that the love of your life has declared
his desire to spend the rest of his life with you. This simple fact
should be savored.
2. Decide Together What Your Budget Is And Stick To It. Often times, we have planned in our hearts what our day should look
like and there is nothing wrong with this; but the reality is that you
must choose how you want your money spent. You will better enjoy the
process once you decide how much you both want to spend. There is
nothing wrong with having a smaller budget wedding so that you can use
the rest of the money for future big purchases. Whatever your agreed
upon amount, stick to it; being on a budget forces you to venture into
the creative side of planning - embrace it.
3. Don't Wait! Reserve the Venue and Book the Photographer and Limo Service.
Once you have decided on the venue and your deposit has been sent to
reserve the date, now is the time to begin interviewing photographers.
Make sure to look at the photographer’s work before booking; you can
also look at their website galleries. Be sure to confirm that these
pictures are taken by the photographer you are meeting with, and not
examples from another photographer’s work.
4. Check References.
Unfortunately, there have been instances where caterers, florists,
bakeries and other vendors have taken the deposit and have either run
off with the money or did not deliver what was promised for the big day.
Politely ask for a list of references, and take the time to make a few
calls before signing those deposit checks.
5. Create Your Timeline, A Checklist And Move Forward.
At this point, you will decide whether to hire a wedding planner or to
recruit a few bridesmaids or relatives to help you in the process. Yes,
you are the bride, but you do not have to plan this event alone! You
will begin by outlining what is most important (ie., visiting floral
shops, bakeries, dress shops, etc.). The point is to not get overwhelmed - don’t let the small things take away the enjoyment of each step in the planning process!
6. Have Your Cake and Eat It Too! Have fun - invite your fiancée to taste wedding cakes after a lunch date together. At Ontario Bakery,
we respect your desire for the perfect cake: not only in how moist and
delicious it is, but also in how beautifully it is presented on your big
day. Contact us today to set up your appointment, and relax in the
enjoyment of our many choices of cake flavors and design options. Or
maybe you want a custom designed wedding cake? We would love to make
your dream cake a reality.
7. Show Your Appreciation And Be Flexible.
There have been many television shows and personal testimonies about
how once sweet and charming brides-to-be can become awful, demanding,
and angry, leaving everyone around them (especially the groom)
wondering, “What happened to her?!” It is not worth sacrificing your
relationships so that you can have every single detail exactly as
you had pictured it. Since it’s not realistic to expect perfection,
the key lies in how you will respond to changes or disappointments.
Keep your expectations realistic of those around you: your bridesmaids
are doing you a
favor by being in your wedding (the dress, shoes, bridal shower gifts,
hair, and make-up do add up rather quickly). Don’t let yourself become
so wrapped up in making the day perfect that you forget to be flexible when situations arise which require you to make some adjustments.
8. Smile. It is not unusual for well meaning friends and family (and family-to-be) to offer their opinion about what they think you
should have at your wedding (particular foods, music, flowers,
centerpieces, etc.). You will probably hear others’ “suggestions” more
than once during this process. Take a slow and deep breath. Smile.
Thank them for their kind suggestion and say nothing else about it.
While they may not be minding their manners in keeping unsolicited
advice to themselves, you can mind yours by responding graciously.
9. Schedule A Practice Run.
Yes, it will cost you a bit more to have your hair and make-up done
several weeks before the wedding, but this is something you will not
want to skimp on. Make sure that you feel comfortable with the stylist,
and bring pictures to show her the hairstyle you’re looking for. The
same goes for the make-up artist. Be willing to kindly decline the
heavy eyeshadow and let her know that you’d really like to keep the deep
red lipstick for your big day.
10. Plan Ahead For Your Honeymoon. Ensure
that you have plenty of time to wash and pack your clothes for your
romantic getaway. This could be easy to overlook with all the wedding
planning, but make sure that you’re prepared. Some couples even decide
to wait a day or two after the wedding before the getaway, just so they
can soak in the afterglow of their memorable wedding.
Let us know if there was anything you have experienced that might help us make this list even better for the next bride. We would be thrilled to help you with your Limo Service in Charlotte NC if that is where you are planning to have the wedding.
